This reflection redefines the meaning of success in horse training by comparing the drive for goals with the richness of shared journeys.
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Contrasting Two Mindsets
Goal-Oriented Approach – Often driven by performance, deadlines, and results. It can create pressure, disconnection, and rigid thinking.
Journey-Oriented Approach – Values the relationship, the moment, and the process. Encourages flow and freedom for both horse and human.
Risks of Goal Focus
• Overfocus on achievement can overshadow the horse’s signals and emotional state.
• It may create stress or tension, reducing joy in training.
Benefits of the Journey Mindset
• Creates space for curiosity, growth, and authentic connection.
• Allows both horse and trainer to evolve at their own pace.
• Encourages presence, adaptability, and deeper emotional awareness.
Key Insight
• Joy and connection arise not from ticking boxes but from traveling together with openness and mutual respect.